Striving for a mind like water

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Dissociation


Here, I describe briefly another concept that I have recently found fascinating. Why is it that some people act on their impulses without insight and judgment? Is the mind really so powerful that it can override our own lucid self? Of course it is. We can act on fanatical burning impulses even if there is an internal conflict rendering us to struggle with justifying our actions. This can be thought of as a state of dissociation from our own ‘self’. There is a part of us that doesn’t want to act this way, but another part which is fueling the impulsion overpowers and makes it happen. This need not be something as dramatic as suicidal or homicidal encounters. Little things like a diabetic indulging in chocolate to a point where his or her sugar levels surge beyond the controllable range or a man walking on the road hitting a kid just for the fun of it. Whatever the impulsive action, it can possibly happen. In most people, rational thinking prevails and they can stop such disruptive behaviour because these two conflicting minds that we have, integrate over the years in a positive social context to give you the ability to reason and justify your actions. When this ability is lost or has not developed over the years as a result of socially inappropriate encounters, vulnerability to these two disintegrated battling minds (dissociative in nature) increases. Because you are in a dissociated state when you act in a certain way, you may not remember it or even approve of that action immediately after. This is just one of the ways that impulsive and brash behaviour can be studied. In fact, this can be linked to any behaviour that you may contend with. Interesting really!!!

2 comments:

  1. Hey Pearl, I agree with you. Happened to me as well. Sometimes heart takes over mind and we tend to do all such things which look like these...'impractical','forget the world','life is so beautiful', 'I am on top of the world', 'world is only me'.

    People always keep pulling you down when you are on fairytale drive.. I understand that its not always appropriate to live in dreams but being practical always doesn't help either.

    Listening to mind may make very good things and make loads of people happy but you would feel internally that you lost something you deserved and you can never be happy and on the other hand if done opposite...you would be happy but the whole world is unhappy. So chose carefully when to use what..

    I believe we need to listen to both "heart & mind"..in order to be happy and make happy... cant live with only one..

    Life teaches you a lot..isn't it?

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  2. Yep! you are right. It's always hard to strike the right balance when it comes to deciding whether to let emotions or pragmatism to overpower. The best thing life can ever teach you is to live with it irrespective of what you choose...because it's hard to know whether it's the heart or the mind (as you put it) that is correct.

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